Thursday, April 30, 2026

Thursday's Threads

 


Outfit Day!!! On my birthday! I'm ashamed to admit that I didn't plan a birthday themed outfit, but I will try to remember for next year. Instead, we went with our old standby farm colors today. Al is our model, and here's what he's wearing this week:

I swear, in real life his weight looks pretty good, but in photos he's looking quite thick... No judegement though. I look thick in both scenarios. Haha!

Bridle: Pinnacle
Browband: Boy O'Boy Bridleworks
Hat: Back on Track
He's awfully cute. Especially with his thinking cap on!

Saddle: Butet
Saddle Pad: Ogilvy
Half Pad: Mattes
I must confess that I am very overdue for a good saddle cleaning. Sorry saddle.

He didn't wear boots for this ride, so nothing to share there!

Here's what I had on:
Keeping it casual over here this week! This oufit feels a little 90's era to me, what do you think?

Helmet: One K Avance CCS MIPS
You know I keep it real over here based on the extreme dust level on that brim...

Sweater: Sonoma
I picked this up sometime last year from Kohl's on a clearance rack. It's the perfect weight for this time of year when the temps go up and down every 20 minutes.

Belt: The Sugar Lady
Rio's been on my mind since his birthday just passed last week. So I wore his belt today. It's absolutely one of my most favorite things. 

Breeches: RJ Classics
Snagged these over the winter at a (very chilly) tent sale. My brown TS have given up so it was perfect timing!

Boots: TuffRider Regal, embellished by me
I don't wear these a ton because I'm so worried about messing up the glitter paint. But then I had the realization that I can always re do them. So I'm using more frequently. They're so fun!

And that's it for today! Not a wild outfit, but a nice one all the same. With just enough bling to keep it fun!

What should I wear next week? Or more importantly, what should the horses wear??

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

What's Up Wednesday

 

It's funny how you go from winter with very little to do (other than shoveling snow) to spring and all the things appear on the schedule. All or nothing right? But it's nice to be busy. And remember I have friends outside of the internet. Ha! 

We left off last week with our first round of spring shots and coggins tests. Everyone handled them great this year, with no noticeable stiffness. Eros had a tiny little bump at the injection site, but otherwise everyone seemed unbothered. I still gave them a light few rides for the couple following days. No one wants to work crazy hard after shots! Which also worked out nicely for me because I scheduled a hair appointment for the following morning which had me starting a little later than usual with riding. 

I had braiding jobs Friday and Saturday, but they were easy, just one mane each night. Most braiders aren't interested in a one horse job, but I actually kind of like it. A little extra spending money and still back home for bed by 11:30. Win-win!


I forgot to take a photo of my Friday horse. This guy from Saturday wound up with 42 braids, despite how much thinning he had from blanket season.

Sunday we brought back Sunday Funday. I rode both boys with saddles, but they did both get to use their snackamores and have snackies after. Al had a tough day, and I wasn't feeling the most trustful of him with no martingale on so made some accommodations and just used part of the ring. We kept it primarily to walk and trot (though we did a little bit of canter). He managed to keep the lid on for the most part and earned himself some grass post ride. He was very confused initially when I walked him out to the field. He wasn't sure if I'd lost my mind and was trying to trail ride on an already questionable brain day, but after a moment of stop and stare and some snorting, he figured out that he was being allowed to graze with me on him. He settled in nicely once he knew that was the actual expectation of him. The other two understand fully what the snackamore rides mean and were very happy to be there for it. 




Monday we all had a nice day off, and I got started on cleaning the aisle walls. It was on the list of things my helper has decided not to do anymore and despite my reminding him, it remains undone. So I guess it's another task for my free day. 

That's how dirty the water was after just two stall fronts.

I've been trying all week to have a chat with him again, but yesterday he had his whole family here with him (so that's not the right time to have a this is your last chance kind of chat), and then today he was gone before 10am when my work meeting ended. I don't really know if he came in extra early to get done so early or not, but we'll add that to the list of things to chat about. The good news is that I have someone I already know interested in taking over the job, so if things don't turn around I have a plan B. I met with her today and not only is she very interested and willing to do all the cleaning, but she's also willing to wait it out and give current helper a last chance to redeem himself. She lives right in town, has had her own boarding barn, and later a smaller backyard place, and has worked for other amateurs like me. So she's well versed in all the things. I didn't think of it in the moment, but I bet she could help me with Al too as she used to be a trainer. She gave up that life to raise her kids but they're grown now. So that's potentially good news for my mental health. 

The horses were great yesterday, even Al! But today was a tough one for him. It took like ten minutes to get him to stand at the mounting block which is his big tell that he's struggling. But eventually he let me get on, and we had a mostly walk ride on a circle. In his defense, the state tree cutters were out again (done by the time I started riding) right out in front of the house. He really hates chainsaws, we've talked about that before. And it just kind of stuck with him for the day. Some days are better than others. Hopefully tomorrow is a brand new day for him. Normally I might feel frustrated that he's has bad days so close together after a good stretch of wonderful behavior. But both days that he struggled there was chainsawing happening very close by. Clearly a trigger for him for some reason. Eventually they'll run out of trees to cut down around here. Right? RIGHT?!

Eros and Shiny popped over some of our tiny jumps today, and were so great! Eros never torpedoed. Not once! Even when I was jumping the little end jump and saw a terrible chip coming. That's usually when he'll get mad at me and take the bit. But this time when I used my slow down whoa (which is different from my halt whoa) he actually broke to trot and gave me a beautiful trot jump. Not exactly what I wanted, but he did it so nicely and landed soft. I decided to pretend it was an equitation test and carried on. And Shiny, who has the opposite problem from Eros in that she doesn't like to listen to my leg, was taking me so nicely to every fence! I'm not sure if I'm doing something differently, or they just feel refreshed from their winter vacation, but I'm enjoying it!

I think we'll have a bit of a stretch of short rides and a few extra days off over the next several weeks. I have a bunch of things to attend for my nieces (one is having her Bat Mitzvah next weekend!) and a few other things that will take up some of my riding time. But all good things! The horses will also get their second round of shots in there somewhere and then their maintenance appointment is on the 15th. Which that is perfect timing because on the 16th I was invited to a Bar Mitzvah for the son of one of my very best college friends. She was the first friend I met in college, but she lives in New Jersey so we never see each other. I'm so excited to go! I'm day tripping for it. It starts at 4:30 so I can do the barn early, feed lunch before I go, and be back in time for a late night check. My former weekend helper is going to feed dinner for me. And since I had those braiding jobs, I asked my horse sitter friend if she wanted to do Sunday mornings chores. Money well spent since I'll probably get home around 1:30 am. 

This Friday evening I get to visit with my winter barn friends, so I'm excited for that too. (The most recent one, obviously, not that other one.) It still amazes me the difference between a healthy environment and a toxic one. Because this occasion that I'm going for is a goodbye party for one of the workers who found a new job. They are celebrating him even though he's leaving. And inviting FORMER boarders to celebrate with them! I mean, at the other place if people want a new job the door might hit them in the ass on the way out and all the nasty comments come flying at them on the way too. And former boarders? Not welcome on the property. Even though they didn't have space for me last winter, I'm so glad I had a chance to be at the welcoming barn. I made such good friends and it helped me remember that not all barn families make you feel stupid and worthless.

Rita also makes me feel valuable and appreciated. 

And the last bit of happy for today:

My amaryllis bloomed this week! Just in time for my birthday tomorrow! I have another one that might also bloom, but not for another month or two. I love these plants because both were gifts, and despite my inability to keep plants alive, they just kind of take care of themselves as long as I water them a few times a week. 

That's it from here! Tomorrow's schedule includes possibly talking to my helper (though I don't really want to start out my birthday that way. I might wait till Friday), riding horses, and then off to elementary school for my younger nieces spring chorus concert. Big day!

Hope you're all having a great week and getting to spend time with your horses!


Tuesday, April 28, 2026

Truthful Tuesday

 

Hahahaha, this is a good one. So this weekend was a little extra busy because I had a couple of horses to braid. One Friday and one Saturday. So the Friday customer paid me in cash, which I put in my jeans pocket. I then put the jeans in the laundry without remembering to take out my money. I mean obviously, right?

So I made a mental note to remember to get the money out of my pocket before laundry day. Which I DID remember to do on Saturday night. But you know what I did with the money? I put the money in the pocket of the pants I had on. Can you see where this is going? I then proceeded to be unable to recall what I did with the money. 

Yesterday was laundry day so I was hopeful it would appear in the laundry. And thankfully it did. But sheesh. The senility is clearly setting in!

Thursday, April 23, 2026

Thursday's Threads: French Fries Edition

 


Eros and I had some fun this week with outfit day. We went with a french fry theme because french fries are delicious. Here's what he had on:

You can't really see any of it from this distance. But don't worry. We have close ups.

Bridle: Joseph Sterling
Browband: Homemade
French fry browband! So cute!

Saddle: Butet
Saddle Pad: Ogilvy, embellished by me
Half Pad: Mattes
French Fry ribbon trim! Isn't this a cute print? Also, don't you wish you could eat french fries every day? Why are they so delicious?

Polos: Centaur, embellished by me

Aren't these fry patches adorable? I wasn't sure if they would stay on the interchangeable wraps. And I was right to be uncertain. One did and one did not. And I haven't yet found the one that did not. But, they're still really cute. I just need to make sure I stick the velcro better next time. 

That's what Eros wore for french fry day, and here's what I had on:

You had to know I had a french fry sweater, right? How could I NOT have one?

Helmet: One K Avance CCS with MIPS
I suspect this navy helmet is nearing expiration if it hasn't already passed that date. I wanted to get a closeout navy Samshield to replace it, but I missed the chance on that. Perhaps another will pop up someplace. 

Sweater: Asos
I love having a french fry sweater. My only small complaint with this one is the pink trim. Why would they do that with a red fry box? I was planning to wear red breeches because I forgot about that pink trim, so I had to pivot to navy instead. 

Belt: Homemade by me

I had a hard time finding the perfect fry fabric and/or ribbon for the belt. But I like this one. This is still my first prototype for the interchangeable belt. I want to make something a little nicer, maybe leather lined. Same for the brow band. They're both a work in progress. 

Breeches: Tailored Sportsman
Guys, I'm still worked up about my preferred fabric being discontinued by TS. And I'm even more annoyed that they never actually got cheap on closeout so I could stock up. Rude.

Boots: Celeris UK
This photo is darker than I realized, sorry about that! These are my navy boots with silver trim at the top. They were demo boots, but pretty much exactly my measurements. Can't beat that! Quality, nearly custom boots without the wait and discounted! Total win.

That's it for today! Are you fry lover? What's your favorite potato? I don't have a favorite, I love all potatoes equally. Never met one I didn't like. 

Wednesday, April 22, 2026

What's Up Wednesday

 


It might not seem like it after yesterday's post, but things have been going quite nicely here for the most part. Up until winter showed back up anyway. Lol. I really just hate cold weather. My horses don't seem to love it either. They were all so silly yesterday. Eros was sure there were horse eating monsters in the woods, Shiny actually spooked, and Al... well you can imagine how Al was feeling if the others were like that. But before we get to yesterday, let's chat about the rest of the week first, when it was lovely out, and the horses were so happy!

Guys. I am terrified to put this in writing because it will definitely jinx things. But Al has been wonderful. Truly. I really make a point to not be in a hurry with him. We hand walk a bit before I get on, and then once on, we walk on a loose rein for awhile each direction before we get to trotting. Once trotting he isn't quite ready to trot around on a loose rein entirely, but here and there he does. He's still more likely than not to be behind the leg, but when I put my leg on, he is responding better than in the past. Lots of work still to do, but I think there's progress. He checks out way less, even with the neighbor banging and clanging away. I'm still staying off the rail on that side with him, but he's using the full ring otherwise. We even jumped a mini course on Friday, and there was no angst from either of us. Just so much more rideable. 

Oh I buried the lead there! They all have done a few jumps this week. 4 jumps on Wednesday, and then maybe 10 on Friday? And by jumps, I pretty much mean raised cavalletti, but you have to start somewhere. And I like the slow is fast method for getting fitness back. It was fun, and we all enjoyed it!

Yesterday not so much... It was windy, the neighbor was neighboring, it was COLD, and I was grumpy. But you know what? Even with all that, he still never fully checked out. I put him on a big circle rather than fighting about using more of the ring, and for the most part, we had a halfway decent ride. He was still tense and snorting the whole ride, but he did what I asked, and never went sideways nor spun. So while it was a crap ride overall, it was still a lot better than it could have been. Even if things fall apart completely this week, we actually had nice rides all of last week, which is probably the longest stretch we've had in a couple years

I don't want to pretend some miracle has happened though, and I'm honest on this blog. So I will tell you, he's still on Gabapentin, which absolutely contributes to this change. I don't know what will happen when we start taking him off it. I'm having the sports med vet out next month when we'll be discussing that. But even with the Gaba, I think there's been a shift for Al because it really wasn't helping much in the fall. I don't think it's ALL from the meds. But it certainly could be. Time will tell. Regardless, I'm enjoying my horse a lot more and that's something. I hope very much that's not solely because of the meds, because I still don't believe in medicating to get the horse you want. But it is nice to know that this pleasant, not overly anxious Al exists. I just hope I can keep him around without medication. I still think there must be some kind of nerve pain or something going on because the weather affects his anxiety so much. I know my body felt a million times better when it was warm, so I feel like that's probably true of him too. We shall see!

Shiny has been good too. I think the longer walks at the start of our ride are nice for her too. Which doesn't mean the Shiny shuffle has disappeared, that will always be her preferred warm up. But once she's warmed up, she's working nicely. She was SO excited when I aimed her at some jumps last week. I forgot what a different pony she is when she's jumping. Wednesday the four jumps were at the end of the ride, but Friday I did some flatwork after we jumped, and she was so loose and forward. She felt great. 

I've been using a poll cover on Eros' bridle because I really liked how he felt with Al's Back on Track hat, but don't really like sharing those things among horses. I had a poll cover already so figured I'd see if that gave me the same feeling from him, and it does! I didn't use it yesterday because I switched bridles for the day and he was clearly a bit off his rocker. He probably would have been regardless, but I'm going to use it today and see what we have. Not a fair assessment fully, as they're getting shots in about a half hour, but the weather is still gross. So he could be spicy or not today. Time will tell!

He had a great week last week though! He was lovely on the jump days, even Friday when I strung a few together. He didn't even torpedo in the little line. He got a little quick once for a lead change, but came right back without taking the reins away from me. Very proud of him!

In other barn news, we had a wee mouse invasion. I knew there was one making a nest somewhere because it ate a hole in my saddle cover. And then the next day a second hole in the same one. (Not happy, that wasn't cheap! But glad it was the same one and not a second one.) 


I couldn't find the nest. Well the next day, I still hadn't found the nest, but I found babies under Eros' saddle. 
There was a fourth one still in the cover. So gross.  And quite a surprise because the cover mama had been destroying was not on this saddle. I put the babies outside, and set some traps. I've since caught two mice. I'm assuming one was mom. Not sure who the other was. Maybe dad. I'm don't know how mouse families work, and truly I don't care as long as they aren't leaving their children in my stuff. I'm not a nanny!

That was enough excitement for me though. Nothing else to report thus far. How are things with you guys? Have you been gifted baby mice lately? I hope not!


Tuesday, April 21, 2026

Truthful Tuesday

 


Well this is awkward.... So, you know how I've mentioned that Al has a threshold for external stimuli? Like he can handle it being windy if it's warm out and the neighbor isn't around, but not if it's also cold and noisy. Well. I realized today that perhaps it's not all him. Because I too am quite dysfunctional with too much negative stimuli.

Let me explain. I have been having a terrible time with carpal tunnel, which is mostly just annoying. But the reason I'm struggling from it is that it's been waking me up at night. And sometimes it's so bad I have trouble getting comfortable enough to go back to sleep. Very annoying. Last night, it woke me up around 2:30 am and I didn't fall back asleep until after 4. So I got maybe 5 hours of very interrupted sleep. Annoying, right? So that was negative stimuli number one.

Negative stimuli number two was that it's freaking freezing again! Not quite literally, but close. It was in the 30's overnight and didn't get to 50 today. Also wind. Gross.

Which leads me to number three. I have told my worker more times than I should have to that he can't use his diesel blower in the barn if the doors will be shut. The fumes are terrible. Like SO BAD. The horses should NOT be left to breath that in. Nor should I. Definitely not good for my asthma. So did he use my electric blower today since the doors were shut? Oh no. No he did not. I was big mad. We're kind of back to the same problems I've complained about in the past, so this was like icing on my grumpy cake. 

Let me tell you. I was in a foul mood ALL DAY. I didn't even want to hang out with me. The horses were super spicy too, but thankfully we all kept our poo mostly together. Though I did nearly fall of Shiny trotting... Hahaha! That actually made my laugh. Not sure what startled her, but I was in the bareback pad and she teleported sideways. She's an angel though and caught me. Good pony.

So anyway, the real question is, am I the reason Al is the way he is?? Or has Al's neuroses rubbed off onto me? Hard to say for sure. But generally with horses, it's usually not them that's the problem. I suppose the first step is recognizing it. Step two is figuring out how to fix it. I'll just be over here trying to reset my grumpy meter.

Thursday, April 16, 2026

Thursday's Threads

 

We've had some really silly outfits the last couple of weeks, so for today, we dialed it back. Shiny is our model, and here is what she had on this week:

I put a little weight on her this winter, because I really didn't like her ultra svelte physique from last summer. I know the vets were happy, but she just looked a little too lean to me. I think she looks perfect right now though. Well. A little under muscled, but that will come with work.

Bridle: Pinnacle
She really likes when I don't make her wear a bit. But she has to sometimes. It's the rules. Not today though!

Saddle: Butet
Half Pad: Stephens
Baby Pad: Ogilvy
Some day I'll get her a green Mattes half pad. But today is not that day. This one does the job for her just fine!

I have been a little lazy with the leg wear, so she doesn't have boots on. But she did wear our brown Busse ones yesterday when we popped over a couple crossrails. 

So that's what she wore today, and here's what I had on:

Kept it pretty boring today! But I kinda like it. Very earthy. 

Helmet: One K Avance CCS MIPS

I'm so glad I found this sparkly front shield at Equine Affair in the fall. It's made this helmet significantly more fun!

Shirt: FitEq
These tees are a wee bit smaller than I remember them being before winter... But you know, still works!

Belt: Silver Star
I forget where I found this belt, but I know I was really excited that it was my farm colors. I swapped out the boring buckle it came with for this fancy horseshoe one. Which makes it look like I've lost several inches, but really it's just a much larger buckle. It will be our secret. 

Breeches: Tailored Sportsman
I haven't tried to stuff myself into any of my size 26 yet, but at least the size 28 still fit! This color is called Fawn, and it is different than the show tan ones. You all know I love all the shades of tan and brown. Even the weird ones. But this one is pretty tame. 

Boots: La Mundial
I was really wishing I had a nice green pair of Celeris. Well I do, but those are lime green and not what I was going for here. Then I remembered these and they worked nicely for today's outfit. 

And that's it! Any favorites from today? Suggestions for next week? I think I know what we're going to wear, but I'm not positive yet.