Thursday, April 17, 2025

Thursday's Threads

 


Outfit day! AND it's a holiday, so we have a fun theme this week. Al is our model, so we can start with what he had on:

You can tell it's windy as per the norm these days because his little tail is blowing away.

Bridle: Pinnacle
Brow Band: Boy O'Boy Bridleworks
He was very interested in having his photo taken this week. Or maybe he was looking for snacks. Hard to say which for sure. 

Saddle Pad: Equine Star
Half Pad: Mattes
Yes that's MATZO! Because this week is Passover. I love how these pads came out visually, but they are kind of slippery which isn't ideal.

Boots: Equine Star
Of COURSE the boots are also matzo print. They're so cute!

That's what Al wore this week, and here's what I had on:

All the matzo. Matzo everywhere!

Helmet: OneK Avance CCS MIPS
I took photos yesterday, and while Al braved the elements, I chose to do the others indoors which is where I snapped this pic. It's the same helmet you all have seen the last many weeks. 

Hoodie: I'm sorry guys, I have no idea the brand on this

When I first got this hoodie a few years back I was disappointed in the base color. But now that I've found a love for every shade of tan on the planet, I'm actually really glad it's this color. I love that the hood is printed like the pocket. Just enough matzo print without going overboard. 

Belt: Lilo
I should probably go hunting for a matzo belt buckle... Seems like a useful item to own. Wonder if it exists?

Breeches: Equiline
I know, I just wore these brown breeches pretty recently for Thursday's Threads, but they seemed the most appropriate color choice for this outfit. So here they are again!

Socks: TooCool
Wouldn't be a Passover outfit without matzo socks! So here they are!

Boots: Horka

Yep still wearing these too. They are now decorated with U-Shield that Al likes to spit all over me. Gives the distressed look a little something extra don't you think? Also, the clogs in the background are from Hunter and are currently my most favorite shoes to wear. I would like to get a back up pair because I'm sure they're discontinued already.

That's it for today! Something fun finally! Happy Passover friends! (And Easter for those who celebrate since that's this weekend.)


Wednesday, April 16, 2025

What's Up Wednesday

 

Guys. The weather is so silly lately. We had the most beautiful day on Monday, but of course that's the horses' day off. And I couldn't switch up our schedule this week because I had too many things to do on my planned Monday off. So it goes sometimes. Since then it's either been raining, blowing wind like a hurricane, or just plain dark and dreary. Oh and it's cold out. On the bright side, things look much improved for the weekend. Let's hope that shakes out!

With the weather all over the place I still haven't really found consistency for the horses. But we're doing the best we can! It just means we don't have anything overly exciting to report on the under saddle front. Just more of the same. Plugging along, dreaming of beautiful summer days. 

One of the many things on my Monday schedule though, was a visit from the saddle fitter for Shiny. (Eros' fitter got hit by the flu so I have no idea when he'll get the attention he needs in that department.) I've been suspecting that with Shiny's new summer bod, her saddle wasn't fitting so well. I finally plopped it on her this weekend sans pads and confirmed that worry. (I rode her exclusively in the bareback pad after that for many days, and I'd like to think I now have the strongest legs in the world.) The saddle is too wide for her now. It's from Custom Saddlery so it is wool flocked and the tree could be adjusted by a fitter with a press. So I was hopeful that we could get it to still work for her. Unfortunately, being that the saddle is VERY old, the fitter wasn't comfortable adjusting the tree. With no history on it, we don't know if it's already been adjusted, and if so how many times. Meaning, adjusting it could actually break the tree. So that's not advised. Adding to the unknowns, there aren't any stamps on the saddle anywhere. Not sure if they've worn off, or if parts that had the stamps were maybe replaced. Who knows. Big mystery. Anyway, we still have flocking working in our favor. I hoped anyway. Well, turns out, the areas that need adjusting aren't flockable areas. So that was also not going to be something we could do to improve the fit. Sigh. BUT, she was able to get it to work by stealing Eros' half pad which is shimmable and adding some shims. I don't think this is a permanent solution. For one, it's kind of just a bandaid. And for two, it's making the saddle sit a little too far back on her. I'm not sure if a different half pad would fix that though. I have a few other shimmable options at home, so we'll definitely experiment once she's back here. 

On the bright side, she feels SO MUCH better with the bandaid pad. She's going more forward, and today she even gave me the most beautiful working walk I've ever gotten from her. Normally just before we achieve a really solid working walk (belly up, flowing through her shoulder, while still being on the bit) she will start pacing. Not today though! She just flowed around the ring with all this power, a HUGE step, and happily stayed on the bit. I can't say we were as successful at the trot, but that gait is still much improved. I even had to slow her down a few times. Miracle! So for now we'll use the shims and long term I'll start looking for a new saddle for her. But that's just not in the budget right now. Sorry pony. 

I don't have anything new happening with Eros. We're just working on our fitness! He's feeling stronger ever week, though today he felt a bit stuck again. He was a wild animal yesterday though, and I heard he was acting like a child in the paddock earlier in the day, so he may have just made himself a little sore and/or tired. I'm not concerned. He felt sound enough, just didn't want to fully commit to carrying himself in a proper shape. I feel that way often too. Fitness is hard. 
I'm really hoping we can get our rep out soon to figure out the saddle situation. It's really hard for me to help him when he's having a hard time when I can't find my own balance in the tack. You guys remember when I was so excited after I got E's saddle and I was all "never need to saddle shop again, everyone is fully situated!" Ha. Jokes on me I guess. Just because you have adult horses doesn't mean they won't change shapes a million times. I just want to thank Al for currently still fitting in his saddle. For however long that may last. 

Speaking of Al.... He's making good efforts. The wind seems to be a little challenging for him, but I have to admit, I'm not sure he's the problem. I HATE the wind. And up here we don't have normal wind. When it's blowing, it's always gusting around 20mph unless it's worse. (Many times it's been worse.) The nice thing at this barn is the trees are far off, so the wind isn't making scary shadows or rustling leaves near the arena. But it legit feels like I could get blown right off the horse. And then I hold on a little tighter with my legs, and Al thinks I'm spooking. Then he gets tense, and we have to reset. Wash, rinse, repeat. And I don't think any of that is his fault. So on these miserably windy days, we do what we can do, and if we dial it in early, so be it. 
Yesterday I had lovely ride on him at all three gaits. I realized the other day, that we've been chipping away all winter at the walk and trot, and slowly but surely the've improved immensely. While we have cantered in our rides all winter, the canter itself was pretty messy. I focused for a long time on getting the walk really rideable. Forward and swinging in a nice shape. Then we added in some lateral work at the walk. It all really came together. Then we started focusing more on the trot once walk was pretty confirmed. Trot can still have some messy moments, and we haven't really touched too much on the lateral work yet. But we're getting some nice forward movement in a lovely shape, and so I think the lateral work will start soon. But outside, the canter is starting to come together too. Same thing, we're working first on relaxation, then adding in more forward, and eventually fixing the shape. One thing at a time. The winter felt so long and frustrating, but I honestly think we got a lot accomplished even though it didn't feel like it. It really helped to be able to work at our own pace without any voices in our ear telling us we aren't good enough. We are good enough. We just needed a reset. I hope I can keep riding him the way he likes and that we'll keep moving forward as a team built on trust. 

That's really all I've got for this week! They get their first round of spring shots tomorrow so we'll probably have a light few days after that. The 26th Al and I are doing a clinic with the same trainer that came in the fall. I'm hoping REALLY hard that we'll be able to be outside for it. AND that same weekend I have a braiding job lined up, so things are looking up! Until then, we'll just keep plugging along!


Tuesday, April 15, 2025

Truthful Tuesday

 

Guys. My horses will be home in 15 days and I feel woefully unprepared for their arrival. I mean... Kind of. Not really. I need to order feed and shavings, but I do have enough shavings to get the stalls ready. Really the barn is in good shape. And I've made a dent in all the laundry so that's good too. But the ring which doubles as a turnout space... not so ready. I went out there yesterday planning to set a new course and have it ready for my helper to drag. Key word, PLANNING.

So prior to heading outside I stopped in the barn for a trash bag (for some of the fill that didn't make it through winter) and my measuring tape to measure any related distances. Of course the measuring tape was missing. I looked absolutely everywhere before reaching out to my helper who told me he borrowed it. Sigh. Of course he did. That's okay, I can always measure another day! Out I went!

I got busy retrieving things that had blown around (it's been a windy winter here) and then I saw it. It looked like a big hole in the ring. Oh dear. A sink hole? I got closer. Nope not a sink hole. But an enormous rock that looks my helper must have discovered and started to dig out but then apparently abandoned the project? Double sigh. My knee has been angry so digging up a rock isn't on my to do list at the moment. I'll leave that for him. But like, we gotta get this done and then filled with stone dust before the horses come home. My worker doesn't have set hours when the horses aren't here other than he is supposed to come in at some point each weekday, so while I was hoping to see him this morning, I didn't. If he's not here tomorrow before I go to the barn, I'll just have to reach out and schedule a quick meeting. It's crunch time! And I can't have holes in the ring. 

So I guess my confession today is that I haven't been staying on top of things around here and because of that I now feel a bit stressed about getting things ready for horses. No one's fault by my own of course. But I do have to ask, why do people start things, not say a word about them, and then not finish them? Like I shouldn't have just discovered a partially dug up rock. I should have been informed of it, or it should have just been taken care of. But alas. Here we are. At least he found it though, right? That's the bright side. It was found by a human and not the hard way by an equine. 

Oh my other confession is that it got too late and I didn't finish moving the jumps. And then tonight it was raining. Maybe tomorrow!


Thursday, April 10, 2025

Thursday's Threads

 

Outfit Day! Another weak one... I forgot entirely to get horse photos, but like last time I did that it's not a new outfit so I will hunt the archives for appropriate photos. So let's start with my outfit since I did remember those photos this week.

Yep, still green and tan over here. There will be more tan next week, but it will be something fun. Unlike today which is kinda dull. 

Helmet: One K Avance CCS MIPS
Okay, yes, recycled photo here too. But I found in which I am wearing a similarly colored top! So bonus points for that?

Sweater: Caslon
I'm pretty sure I've worn this one for you guys before. My dad and stepmom got it for me for Chanukah. 

Belt: Tory Burch
I wear this one a lot, and I'm impressed with the quality. I've had it for several years now, and it still looks new.

Breeches: Horze
These breeches are also super old. They're holding up well for how long I've had them. I like them especially because they run a little big so I don't feel so bad about the few pounds I packed on this winter when I wear them. 

Boots: Horka
Still wearing these guys! Chances are pretty good that I'll keep them at the barn until it's time to come home. So you'll likely be seeing them for the next few weeks. 

I reached way back in the archives to last fall when Shiny was modeling the exact outfit she's wearing this week. 

I can't wait to get her coat looking like this again! Her winter coat is so pale and dull. Her spring coat hasn't really started coming in yet, or if it has, it's still hiding under what's left of her winter hair. 


Bridle: Pinnacle
Brow Band: Boy O'Boy Bridleworks
Look at that pretty face! Currently there is a LOT more ear hair.

Saddle: Custom Saddlery
Saddle Pad: Mattes
I'm not sure why, but I really love tan saddle pads. Especially this one.

Boots: Uhlan
I really am impressed with the quality of these boots for how inexpensive they were. Not sure that will be the case with all the tariffs coming... But if you're interested, grab a pair before that happens! But I have to confess, I accidentally put these in the dryer and they shrunk a little bit. Still totally functional, but they are a bit smaller.

That's it for today! Next week will be fun, promise. Unless I somehow forget. Which is possible. Today I lost my keys temporarily because I left them in my door after I locked it. I'm almost 45, so I guess it's time the memory went.

Wednesday, April 9, 2025

What's Up Wednesday

 

Okay, so I shouldn't complain because upstate NY (and north from there too) got actual snow yesterday. But I'm still gonna complain because last night was in the 20's. What kind of BS is that in April? And that meant it was barely above freezing when I got to the barn this morning. Stupid. Needless to say, we've been riding inside a lot. Thank goodness I don't do silly things like bring my horses home before May so I have access to an indoor. 

ANYWAY, you're not here for a weather report. I don't think. Are you? It is an important part of horsing that is for sure. How many times a day do you check the weather so you know how to dress your horses? Easily 10 times for me. Sorry. I derailed again. Let's talk about horses!

Shiny is still struggling to find her motivation. I think she's having some allergies (me too, girl, me too) which doesn't help matters. But also, she got bit by a tick at the end of last week, so that has me concerned. She has chronic lyme, so I worry this might invite a flare up. We're doing round one of spring shots a week from tomorrow though, so I'm going to pull Lyme titers on all of them just to check in. I figure another obstacle to her wanting to put in real work is that her saddle for sure needs some adjustments after her weight loss journey. Fortunately, one of the other boarders has a Custom Saddlery rep coming out to check her saddle on Monday and we tagged on to that appointment. I've been doing more rides with the bareback pad in the meantime to try and see if that makes any difference in how she's moving. Now that she's so svelte though, I am definitely working harder in the bareback pad, so I haven't made that an everyday thing. My legs would would probably fall right off. Our body worker will be back from Florida once we're home too, so I bet that will also be helpful. When Shiny had her feet trimmed a couple weeks ago she was trying to get the farrier to adjust her. He did not know how. Lol. Despite all of the above, she's not unwell or anything scary like that. She just doesn't want to work. She's still bright, eating well, and annoyed by the very existence of all the other horses on earth. And honestly with the crazy weather, I don't really want to work either. So there's that.


Eros has been putting in some WORK with his equibands lately. Now that we're using both the belly and the bum band, I'm really feeling a difference in how he carries himself. We haven't built up to a full ride in both yet. He does a full ride with the belly band now, and we are up to ten minutes with the bum band on as well. But once I remove the one band, he still keeps the posture the rest of the ride, and usually for the next few days too. It's amazing how much it helps him. He feels significantly more sound when he's carrying himself properly too which is an added bonus for sure. I'm getting excited for summer with him! I was hoping to have our Butet rep out today to figure out how to fix this saddle properly and/or get it replaced with something else, but unfortunately she got hit by the awful flu that's going around. So we're on hold with that for another little bit. 

I just noticed today that Al's little bit of white on his nose has really spread in the last couple of years. When he first arrived that white spot on his nose was just a little square on his nostril, but now it's kind of turning into a legit snip. Kinda funny! I've never seen a marking change like that. I've seen stars kind of spread out as a horse gets old and gray, or a scar grow in white, but a spreading out little bitty snip is a new one for me! 
As you might have guessed the up and down weather and constantly changing rings has been a bit of a challenge for Al. But he's really trying to handle it, and I give him credit for that. Sunday two of the other boarders were planning to jump, and I opted to join them with Al. We were indoors which I knew would be a challenge. But we were up for it! Plus the jumps were all trot-able. Like MAYBE they were 2'. I had walked the line they set and called a three, and it walked exactly in 2... But being indoors and the jumps were so tiny, I wasn't sure how that would actually ride for us. So we trotted in and cantered out of there in a nice easy three. He really was pretty good. We had to avoid the ends,  and never really achieved a flowing canter, but we popped over all the jumps with no major catastrophes so I'm calling it a win. Hopefully next time we can be outdoors. FINGERS CROSSED because there's a lot more rain coming. Sheesh. 
Yesterday when outside with his buddies I heard a rumor that Al was doing a little running around. So today he was a bit tired and we had the nicest ride in the indoor! Probably the most relaxed he's been in there yet. Relaxed, but also FORWARD! Miracles can happen my friends. 
I keep having to remember to keep my brain on, and that sometimes a walk break to reset can make a huge difference. My rides on him are the longest of all my horses, but the more patient I can be, the more he relaxes and the more we can actually accomplish. I always thought I was a pretty patient person, but Al is proving that to be untrue. He's definitely teaching me a lot. Not just about riding, but about myself too. He's a tough one, but he for sure came into my life for a reason. I'm not sure what this summer will bring for us because I'm not sure how much money I'll have to play with. But I would REALLY like to get him to some shows and hopefully get back on track. I miss jumping big jumps on him, but more than that I miss having those confident rides with him. And I know we can get that back. Fingers crossed it happens this summer! (But no pressure if it doesn't.)

I feel like most of these recap posts are just more of the same lately, so hopefully you're not all bored to tears over here. Summer is coming though, so things should get more exciting (in good ways only!) in the next few weeks. 

Tuesday, April 8, 2025

Truthful Tuesday

 

***DISCLAIMER***
I don't want today's confession to be taken the wrong way, because absolutely I'm at a point in my equestrian life where I will do everything in my power to make sure my horses are comfortable and thriving. 

We used to show on grass regularly. This was at Shallowbrook.

That said, sometimes I wish I could go back to my early days of ignorance. Long ago, in my youth, horsing was a lot different than it is now. We rode on all kinds of terrible footing. Wet footing, slippery footing, deep footing. UNEVEN footing! The horrors! And no, horses weren't more sound back then. But our diagnostics also weren't as good. Probably we didn't realize half the time when the horse was just a little off. We had a term called "Serviceably Sound" in which the older horses might have a wee hitch in their get-a-long but they got along okay. Growing up, I remember a lesson horse that only cantered one direction. Probably she had raging EPM but we didn't know what that was yet. Now that I think about it, that same horse tripped and fell down with me the second time I ever jumped. Yep, probably had EPM. Ah, hindsight. (Also, this may have contributed to my being a giant weenie... not the EPM but the falling down while learning to jump.) 

Blurry photo of the big field at Fairfield on a bright sunny day
(with good footing)

I remember showing at Stoneleigh Burnham one summer in the junior hunters (back then there was only one height for the junior hunters, and that was 3'6"). It was raining so hard I couldn't actually see where the jumps were until we were a stride out. We didn't scratch! That was unheard of! The show went on! (I was champion because appendix horses aren't little princesses like today's warmbloods.) Another time we were showing on the big grass field at Fairfield. It had been raining for DAYS. The grass was both muddy and slippery. Jumps were still 3'6" but we were allowed to use bell boots in the hunters that day. My friend's horse lost both front shoes in a single class. I can assure you, if I faced either of these situations today I'd be at home enjoying a rain day on my couch. 

Here we are jumping in a ring that was literally 
a parking lot when we had horse shows. (Still is in fact.)

And the reason I bring this up is that footing is making it rather tricky to get my horses really back in the groove this spring. The weather tricked us with some beautiful spring days a couple weeks ago. Now it's back to being stupid cold (my horses have heavies back on, 20's tonight!), insanely windy, and rain nearly every day. Ahhh spring in New England. It's delightful. 

I'm so old, when I showed at Indoors (I think this is Washington,
but it might have been Capital Challenge) they just had sand in the 
arenas. None of the new age stuff we have now!

The footing at the boarding barn is very different from the indoor to the outdoor. The indoor has TravelLite footing which is the paraffin wax stuff. It's nice because it's dust free, but it can get packed down and hard. I think they either really need to get in there and dig it up to get it fluffier or they need to add a little more footing. For my horses though, I prefer a little harder vs something deep. We've had our share of soft tissue problems (looking at you Eros...) so harder is better in that respect. Then there's the outdoor. The outdoor has sand footing similar to what I have at home, but it's a heavier sand than mine and it could use about an inch or two less of it. Too bad it's not the same stuff as in the indoor as that would be a nice fix for both rings! Knowing what I know now about horses and soundness, I'm really careful about transitioning back to the deeper footing outside. But with the weather, it's just been so inconsistent. I feel like we're constantly starting over with the reconditioning out there. And getting not much accomplished otherwise. If this was 30 years ago (boy am I old!) I wouldn't think twice about this stuff. I'd just work the horses! And probably they'd be just fine. Or maybe I just wouldn't notice if they weren't. 

This kid knew nothing about soundness. I can guarantee that! 
Nor fashion sense... The helmet. The too big jacket. THE MISMATCHED BRIDLE.

Obviously I'm glad to know what I know now. And also obviously I would never want to purposely risk injuring my horses. All I'm saying is ignorance certainly was bliss!


Thursday, April 3, 2025

Thursday's Threads

 

Outfit Day! I forgot... many of today's photos, but nothing is new so I think I may be able to pull from the archives for those. Let's give it a shot! Eros modeled for us today, and here's what he had on:

Photo from yesterday when he was working on his fitness inside. We actually got to ride outside today. In the fog. Couldn't see a thing!

Bridle: Pinnacle
Brow Band: Boy O'Boy Bridleworks

I think when we move him for the summer I need to give these bridles a good oiling. They are aging so nicely, and getting so soft! But I can tell they would like me to take care of them at least a little bit. Which is fair. For an inexpensive bridle I definitely recommend these.

Saddle: Butet
Half Pad: Mattes
Saddle Pad: Catago
I had to dig deep into the archives for this one! I think that's Al's saddle in this photo, but of course I'm using Eros' now. We rode in the Catago version of the Equiband system, but we did have the back strap on for part of the ride also. I honestly am really impressed with how much using the bands helps Eros use himself better. Not only while it's on, but he really retains that feel when they come off. And he feels SO GOOD when he's using his hind properly and lifting his back. There's so much power still in this horse. 

Wraps: Eskadron
I like these wraps for winter, but I do prefer the polo wraps version for the warmer months. I'd like to get a black pair one of these days.

So that's what Eros was wearing this week, and here's what I had on:
Still doing the whole green, tan, brown thing. One of these days we'll mix it up again. 

Helmet: One K CCS MIPS
Glad I snapped this photo last week... Haha! You've seen this helmet a LOT lately.

Sweater: Liny Xin
I have a bunch of these sweaters that come from Amazon. They're merino, so nice and cozy warm, yet still can be machine washed. (No dryer though!) They hold up pretty well, and I love them for the barn because they're inexpensive. 

Belt: The Sugar Lady (Etsy)
This is Rio's belt, the fancy stitch part is made from his tail hair. I LOVE this belt so much. The Sugar Lady did a beautiful job with it, and she let me help design it. I love the PonyLocks belts (that's where Jamp's is from) but I wanted something different for Rio's tail hair. Mostly because he and Jamp both had black tails so a second belt like that seemed redundant. But also, Rio was extra special and I wanted a more unique design for him. This definitely fits the bill!

Breeches: RJ Classics
My room is a terrible place to photograph breeches in the morning. These are hunter green. You've seen them a lot, I know. My green TS breeches are size 26, and I'm solidly a 28 at the moment... so these are the ones I reach for most often. 

Boots: Horka
These seem to be my go to boots for spring weather. I don't worry too much about them getting wet or dirty since they are meant to look wet and dirty. 

And that's it for today! Sorry about the archive photos, but hey, better than nothing!